The Unfortunate Truth About Living in a Melting Pot: Hawaii and Racism

Updated April 2026. Originally published 2022.

Racism is alive and well in Hawaii. It just looks a little different than it does on the mainland.

Quite a few years ago, a woman I had recently met exclaimed “Judy, they’re prejudiced against us!” She was Caucasian, from the western US. I guess she thought that if she could be magnanimous enough to overlook other people’s skin color, they should do the same for her. She lasted less than a year before moving back to the mainland.

A Little History

I was born in Hawaii in 1954 and have lived here most of my life. There were Kill a Haole days at the public schools when I was growing up. The local kids would pelt our car with guavas when we drove through Hawaiian Home Lands. There were parts of Oahu where haoles simply were not safe. I was aware of the hostility, but it never really bothered me — I understood where it came from.

The private school I attended admitted only Caucasians and Hawaiians when I was young. My stepfather was the first president of one of the private clubs in Honolulu to successfully argue that admission should not be limited to haoles.

By the time I was in high school, things had changed somewhat. There was a flourishing of Hawaiian language and culture, giving pride to many Hawaiians for the first time in generations. The music produced during that era was fantastic — including a hilarious and affectionate song by Keola and Kapono Beamer called Mr. Sun Cho Lee, which gently pokes fun at every race on the island. It concludes with the lines: “One thing I wen notice bout this place, all us guys we tease da otha race, it’s amazing we can live in da same place.”

Not Any Better Now

Those were gentler times. As more and more people have moved to Hawaii, consuming more resources and trying to impose their values on the locals, resentments have grown. Life used to be easier, and now many locals are hard pressed to make a living. Many work multiple jobs, and as real estate prices rise, they commute hours each day. When they do find time to relax, they are being crowded out of the places they used to love by throngs of tourists.

While most local people are gentle, fun loving, and generous, there are definitely people who hate haoles. I know several people in my town who will never acknowledge me, and I’m fine with that. I understand why some locals, and especially Hawaiians, despise haoles. The history of Hawaii’s annexation — the unlawful overthrow of a legitimate government driven by greed — is not ancient history to the people who bear its consequences every day.

Here is one outsider’s honest account of experiencing racism in Hawaii: The Professional Hobo

What This Means for You

If you are considering moving to Hawaii, go in with your eyes open. Don’t expect a free pass. You will need to prove — over time, through consistent action — that you are honest, humble, hard working, respectful, and generous. If you can do that, most people will eventually extend the aloha these islands are known for. If you can’t, or won’t, you may find yourself isolated in a Caucasian enclave, wondering why you moved here in the first place.

Come with an open heart, genuine curiosity about the culture and history, and real respect for the people who were here long before you. That is the price of admission — and it is absolutely worth paying.

Judy S. Howard, Esq. is a Realtor Broker with COMPASS in Waimea, Hawaii, and a licensed Hawaii attorney with over 30 years of experience. She can be reached at judy@livinginwaimea.com or 808-885-5588.

Hawaii is paradise because of its people and the Hawaiian culture!

The Hawaiian People and Their Culture Make Hawaii a Unique Paradise

Updated April 2026. Originally published 2019.

When I wrote this post in 2019, the peaceful gathering at the base of Mauna Kea had just captured the world’s attention. Thousands of kia’i — protectors — stood together to defend a sacred mountain, demonstrating a unity and cultural strength that moved people around the world. In my nearly 60 years on this island, I had never seen anything quite like it.

Seven years later, the TMT controversy continues. No construction has resumed, and management of the mountaintop is being transferred to a new oversight authority that includes representatives of both astronomical observatories and Native Hawaiian communities. The National Science Foundation dropped support for the TMT in June 2025 in favor of a different telescope project in Chile, putting the TMT’s future in serious doubt. The protectors have not wavered, and the legal victories they have won along the way speak to the strength and resilience of a people who know their rights and their history. Civil Beat

What the Mauna Kea movement showed the world — and reminded those of us who live here — is something that has always been true: the Hawaiian people and their culture are extraordinary.

A Culture That Has Endured

In the past, aspects of Hawaiian culture were commercialized and trivialized. The result was a distorted image of Hawaii that did a disservice to the people, the land, and the history. The Mauna Kea movement helped set the record straight for a global audience.

This is not a theme park. This is a place of extraordinary natural bounty and deep cultural significance. The land, the people, and the culture here deserve to be treated with the utmost respect.

The fact that the Hawaiian people thrived on these islands for centuries — managing complex agricultural systems, navigating vast stretches of open ocean, developing a rich oral tradition, language, and spiritual practice — speaks to remarkable ingenuity and adaptability. The fact that their language was banned in the late 1800s and is now not only surviving but thriving, taught in immersion schools and spoken by a new generation, speaks to a resilience that is genuinely inspiring. It is also worth acknowledging, particularly for those considering making Hawaii their home, that Hawaii’s inclusion in the United States was the result of an unlawful overthrow of a legitimate government in 1893 — driven by greed and racism dressed up as sanctimonious good intentions. This history matters. The strength and resilience of the Hawaiian people today is all the more remarkable in light of it.

What This Means for Those Moving Here

If you are considering moving to Hawaii — or even visiting — understanding and respecting the culture is not optional. It is essential.

Come with an open heart and a genuine willingness to learn. Treat the people you meet with kindness and respect, and most will repay you with the aloha these islands are known for. Many people who move here say that while the place is beautiful, it is ultimately the people they fall in love with. I hear this again and again, and I agree.

In Waimea specifically, Hawaiian culture is woven into everyday life — in the Hawaiian language charter school Kanu O Ka Aina, in the work of the Paniolo Preservation Society, in the ranching traditions that stretch back generations. Coming here with curiosity and respect for that history will enrich your experience immeasurably.

A Few Practical Notes

Finding places to stay while you explore has become more challenging since Hawaii County tightened vacation rental regulations, but bed and breakfasts remain available. The State of Hawaii maintains a helpful newcomers guide at ehawaii.gov for those considering a move.

And if you want to understand a little more about what life here is like — the beauty and the challenges — read my post on What You Need to Know Before Moving to the Big Island.

Judy S. Howard, Esq. is a Realtor Broker with COMPASS in Waimea, Hawaii, and a licensed Hawaii attorney with over 30 years of experience. She can be reached at judy@livinginwaimea.com or 808-885-5588.

Moving to Hawaii. Will I be disappointed?

Waipio Valley camp fire. Photo by Sarah Anderson

What If I Don’t Love Living in Hawaii?

It’s a fair question — and an important one. Moving to Hawaii is expensive, logistically complex, and life-changing. Not everyone is happy here, and you owe it to yourself to do everything possible to make sure it’s the right move before you commit.

Visit Multiple Times and Stay as Long as You Can

Come more than once. Stay in different areas. The Big Island alone has dramatic differences between regions — Waimea’s cool ranch country feels nothing like Kona’s sunny leeward coast, which feels nothing like Hilo’s lush rainy east side. What suits one person perfectly drives another person away.

Finding places to stay has become more challenging since Hawaii County tightened vacation rental regulations in residential neighborhoods, but bed and breakfasts are still available and longer term rentals can sometimes be arranged. The investment of time and money to truly experience an area before buying there is always worth it.

The People May Surprise You

I hear this again and again from people who move here: it’s not just the place they fall in love with — it’s the people. Come with an open heart and treat the people you meet with genuine kindness and respect, and most will repay you with the aloha these islands are known for.

Do Your Research

Your realtor is a valuable source of information about what life here is really like day to day — not just the real estate transaction. The State of Hawaii also maintains a helpful newcomers guide.

And if you want the unvarnished truth about what to expect — healthcare, schools, cost of living, insurance, and more — read my longer post: What You Need to Know Before Moving to the Big Island.

Judy S. Howard, Esq. is a Realtor Broker with COMPASS in Waimea, Hawaii, and a licensed Hawaii attorney with over 30 years of experience. She can be reached at judy@livinginwaimea.com or 808-885-5588.